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ana mendieta

straight As

is anyone, or does anyone know, a parent who is raising their children to be "C" students?

i swear, if one more parent tells me her/his child is "getting As and Bs, but all As would be great!", i'm going to freak out. i'm talking about 7 and 8 year olds, here. 90% of the kids i teach over the summer are over-booked and under a lot of pressure to perform. was this most people's experience growing up? i don't remember this at all.

i have kids show up for my reading development classes who have been to camp, then dance, then swim class before they see me in the late afternoon. they are cranky and almost falling asleep and i'm asking them to practice READING with me. (i may be biased, but i think the reading is more important than other activities--although i do think other activities are important.)

mothers of 9 year olds (who still have trouble sounding out some long words at that age) are complaining to me that their kids take TOO LONG to do their homework. homework is something that they apparently need to "get out of the way" to get to interpretive dance class and karate on time.

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From someone whose siblings are overbooked...

It's really a vicious cycle...kids are involved in too many activities...parents are busy with work...schleping kids to activities gets frustrating and now they're mad at the KIDS when they should be mad at themselves...then to top it all off the family gets home at 9pm and that's when it's time to start homework...kids are struggling but parents are too busy getting ready for work/school the next day and trying to get five minutes of relaxation to themselves...so they again are mad at the KIDS for not doing homework fast enough and without whining...mad at teachers for giving too much homework...mad at the world...but never thinking that three dance classes, karate, spanish club, girl/boy scouts, soccer, indoor track and babysitting were a bit too much for the WHOLE family.

Re: From someone whose siblings are overbooked...

this is what i'm seeing, yes. maybe people shouldn't have so many kids if they can't afford to raise them in a way that includes being able to give them TIME.
ana mendieta

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